CAT THE MOUSE LIFE.
One painful truth you have to discover painfully or by reading this message and leave with is that MAJORITY of the people around you showing you teeth don't love you one bit. In fact, they have to always put a fake smile because they don't like you at all. the truth is that, MOST of them don't even care that you exist, you are another burden of creation they have to use for their survival 😡😡
BUT WHY ARE THEY WITH YOU, CALL YOU, LET YOU IN TO THEIR OFFICES EVERY MORNING, SEND YOU A GOOD NIGHT MESSAGE, BUY YOU PIZZA, OR CALL YOU ALL THE SWEET NOTHINGS YOU WANT TO HEAR?????
The sad part is that some of them don't even know it themselves but you are a necessarily tool of their survival. As long us they need something you have or something you are, they will give you an illusion of how much they love or need you as they use you in getting what they need. SO WHAT'S THE LESSON?
Don't be a 'man pleaser' just be you. Be comfortable in your skin and do the best you can at all times under the circumstance. If at work place, remember they hired you because of what they can gain out of you based on what you can do not who you were and that's what makes them smile. Stop doing what they called you to do and you will see how fast they will show you the door. Offer what you have the best way you know how to If someone isn't comfortable with you being you, they can as well swallow needles. Period.
In social life, it's the high time you got a life sis/bro you ant a result of anyone's opinion, believe in yourself and stop seeking people's approval to being you. Believe in yourself and give dear you some value. Don't be moved by smiles, people's opinions and all the "Dear this dear that" so easily.... FOCUS in what you are made for and as long as you can say yes to the question..."did I do what I was supposed?" Kindly look for yourself a plate of matoke Ugali and some sauce of you choice, get yourself a snoring night and stop having a pity party. GREAT DAY
One painful truth you have to discover painfully or by reading this message and leave with is that MAJORITY of the people around you showing you teeth don't love you one bit. In fact, they have to always put a fake smile because they don't like you at all. the truth is that, MOST of them don't even care that you exist, you are another burden of creation they have to use for their survival 😡😡
BUT WHY ARE THEY WITH YOU, CALL YOU, LET YOU IN TO THEIR OFFICES EVERY MORNING, SEND YOU A GOOD NIGHT MESSAGE, BUY YOU PIZZA, OR CALL YOU ALL THE SWEET NOTHINGS YOU WANT TO HEAR?????
The sad part is that some of them don't even know it themselves but you are a necessarily tool of their survival. As long us they need something you have or something you are, they will give you an illusion of how much they love or need you as they use you in getting what they need. SO WHAT'S THE LESSON?
Don't be a 'man pleaser' just be you. Be comfortable in your skin and do the best you can at all times under the circumstance. If at work place, remember they hired you because of what they can gain out of you based on what you can do not who you were and that's what makes them smile. Stop doing what they called you to do and you will see how fast they will show you the door. Offer what you have the best way you know how to If someone isn't comfortable with you being you, they can as well swallow needles. Period.
In social life, it's the high time you got a life sis/bro you ant a result of anyone's opinion, believe in yourself and stop seeking people's approval to being you. Believe in yourself and give dear you some value. Don't be moved by smiles, people's opinions and all the "Dear this dear that" so easily.... FOCUS in what you are made for and as long as you can say yes to the question..."did I do what I was supposed?" Kindly look for yourself a plate of matoke Ugali and some sauce of you choice, get yourself a snoring night and stop having a pity party. GREAT DAY
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